Difficult Days

On difficult days When times are hard
And you feel like giving up
Try to look inside of you for strength
Because true strength comes from within

Remember a smooth road often leads to easy death
A straight road often leads nowhere
Every setback is another opportunity to try harder
With each failure comes a lesson

As long as you keep trying you are a winner
But once you quit trying you lose
Every difficult phase you go through builds your strength
But giving up kills hope

Always remember success is nobody’s birthright
And its also not for everybody
But as long as you keep pushing
Success will come to you someday

When faced with the most difficult situation
Always be positive about it
Most problems are as difficult as you make it look
But with a positive mind even the most difficult problems look easy

Its too late to give up on yourself
But its never too late to try harder
On those difficult days
Giving up is never an option

What if Tomorrow Never Comes?

Nobody promised us tomorrow so why should we push what we can do today till the following day, what if tomorrow never comes, what if am not here tomorrow, what if you don’t have that opportunity tomorrow.

So i asked What if tomorrow never comes?
Tomorrow is not guaranteed, we need to start living today like its our last day, don’t wait till tomorrow to do what you can do today, you might not be here tomorrow, your idea night not be need tomorrow, tomorrow is 24hours too late, start doing something today.

So Is there something you want to do today? Do it now don’t wait till tomorrow, tomorrow is a day too late

If you have an idea that could heal the world, don’t keep it till tomorrow, use it today the world might seize to exist tomorrow.

If you have a business idea, today is the best day to develop it, don’t wait till tomorrow, someone else might come up with same idea tomorrow and yours will be like a pirated work

If an opportunity present itself today, the best time to grab it and use it is today, opportunities don’t always come and you might not get it tomorrow

If you are in a relationship and you don’t feel needed, don’t wait till tomorrow to find out if your partner might change towards you, today is the best time to quit, you might be hooked tomorrow

If you’re in love with somebody, but that person doesn’t know tell him/her; Maybe today, that person is also in love with you, and if you don’t say it, tomorrow may be too late.

If you really have friends who you appreciate, tell them. Maybe they appreciate you as well. That if you don’t and they leave or go far away today, tomorrow may be too late.

If you’re angry with someone, and nobody’s there to fix it, you fix it. Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend. And if you don’t, tomorrow may be too late.

If you really want to kiss somebody, if you need a hug of a friend, ask for it. Maybe they need it more than you do. And if you don’t ask for it today, tomorrow may be too late.

Everyday comes with its own blessing and burden, tomorrow might not be the kind of day you expect it to be, what is here today might be gone tomorrow.

Do not wait until tomorrow, today is the day. Regrets from our actions today, will not help when the opportunity is here now and we choose to Ignore it, to leave it for another day.

So today, try a little harder, make every minute last longer, seize every opportunity and make use of it, tomorrow is not promised, make the most of it, love your enemies today, reach out to somebody who needs you, make a change, make the world a better place because tomorrow could be one day too late.

Success Requires Sacrifice

Success is not a stroll in the park neither is it a roller coaster ride. it requires hard work, investing energy, time and sweat if possible blood. Success doesn’t go where its not needed neither does it stay where it not appreciated, Success involve starting something small and nurturing it like a flower, doing all you can to make sure you hit it where it matters. Failure is an orphan but success comes with many family, success will attract many things and many people but only those who are worthy and can contribute to make the success last are worthy of allowing to stay. Success also comes with lots of enemies but to stay successful, managing enemies is an important skill.

Success doesn’t come cheap like many believe, it comes at a cost, sacrifices needs to be made and the sacrifices could cost; time, energy and hard work. Only hard work leads to success not sleeping around and expecting success to run after you

Success belongs to everybody and anybody that is willing and ready to give it a good shot and go after it, it is not reserved to a few selected individuals. There are certain principles or commandment that needs to be adhere to in order to record and be a success;

It Does Not Matter How You Start : How you start does not determine how successful you will become, there is a psychological tendency in humans to always improve as the day goes by. Always remember that slow and steady always wins the race. Nobody cares how you start, what people care about is the end result.

Having A Winning Mentality : Having the right
attitude is crucial to being successful, you must have the winning mentality, nobody can become successful without believing in his/her ability to deliver, never doubt your capability and try to give your best to be a winner always.

Welcome criticism : Whenever you set out to do something original, daring, important and
exciting there will always be people, who will
try to talk you out of it. They will tell you your idea or goal is crazy, unrealistic, too risky, too innovative, too strange. Take it as possible feedback, not as the absolute truth, because in most cases people’s criticism has nothing to do with your goal and everything to do with their own personal fears, doubts and negative past experiences.

Learn From Your Failures : The more attempts
you take at something the sooner you will figure out the best way of doing it. Do not be afraid to try and fail. In fact, welcome failure, learn from it and try again.

Dream Big : Every important achievement
always starts with a great dream. Do not settle for less, just because it is easy, familiar and guaranteed. At some point in your life you will have to face a decision to either risk it and go for an opportunity or settle for less than you know you are capable of achieving. ‘Aim for the sky and you will reach the ceiling, Aim for the ceiling you will stay on the floor”….. Bill Shankly

Love What You Do : In order to be successful, itis important to love what you do, success does not solely imply financial security and a handsome paycheck at the end of the month, It is about self- realisation and enjoyment as well.

Always Open Your Mind To Possibilities : It is not always easy to spot a great opportunity that comes your way, especially when it looks like a problem, but this does not mean that we should stop trying. Be careful not to become too rigid in your thinking, as it will impede your ability to see possibilities and act on them.

Always Be Time Conscious : If you want to be successful in life you have to see every new day, every minute of your life as an opportunity for growth and achievement. Make it a habit of asking yourself throughout the day “Am I doing something meaningful or useful?” If not, you are stealing from yourself one of the most precious treasures you have been given – your time.

Associate With Winners : The people in your life will to some extent determine how successful you will be, always associate and rob minds with winners and people who share the same dream as you.

Encourage Others : Starting today focus on
empowering instead of judging, helping instead of criticizing, listening instead of talking, learning instead of convincing that your opinion is the only correct one in the room, and something magical will happen – people will follow you, seek your advice and offer their help to you without you having to ask for it.

Avoid Distractions : A great way of dealing with distractions is to remind yourself that they are the main reason why you will feel stressed out, overwhelmed and unproductive by the end of the week. Every time you say “No” to distractions you are moving one step closer to becoming a true master of your time.

Develop The Action Habit : Don’t be a man of
words but a man of actions, to be successful in life you have to start taking actions and not only talking about what you intend to do, take the risk, do what you need to do.

Be Patient : Success does not come overnight and it does not just happen, it takes time, it needs planning and being patient is very important in becoming successful.

Success is a process and you must love all the process involved, give back to the society and visualize your success.

Positive Thinking

The finest gift you can give anyone is
encouragement. Yet, almost no one gets the
encouragement they need to grow to their full potential. If everyone received the encouragement they need to grow, the genius in most everyone would blossom and the world would produce abundance beyond the wildest dreams.

It is not the hours we put in on the job, it is what we put into the hours that counts.”

Every goal, every action, every thought, every feeling one experiences, whether it be consciously or unconsciously known, is an attempt to increase one’s level of peace of mind.

The birthplace of success for each person is in his Inner-Consciousness. The Inner-Consciousness will use whatever it is given. If constructive thoughts are planted positive outcomes will be the result. Plant the seeds of failure and failure will follow.”

When you have too much month for you paycheck, then what you need to do is realize that there is abundance all around you and focus on the abundance and not your lack and as night follows day abundance will come to you.”

To be healthy, wealthy, happy and successful in any and all areas of your life you need to be aware that you need to think healthy, wealthy, happy and successful thoughts twenty four hours a day and cancel all negative, destructive, fearful and unhappy thoughts. These two types of thought cannot coexist if you want to share in the abundance that surrounds us all.”

The world will change for the better when people decide they are sick and tired of being sick and tired of the way the world is, and decide to change themselves and by changing themselves they affect the world positively.

The power of positive thinking will drive you to success when you always see positive, say positive and act positive.

if You Believe, You’ll Succeed

Never affirm self-limitations. What you believe
yourself to be, is what you are.

Whatever your mind can conceive and believe, it will achieve. Dream great dreams and make them
come true. Do it now!

You are uniquely created, In all the history of the world there was never anyone else exactly like you, and till infinity there will never be another you.

To accomplish great things, you must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe. If
you have built castles in the air, put foundations under them and believe, sure you’ll achieve it. Believing is magic, you can always better your best, you don’t know what you can do until you try.

Nothing will come of when nothing is done. If you don’t stretch yourself, you’re never going to get the fruit. There is no failure except in no longer trying.
Lazy goals produce lazy results.

Defeat may test you; it shouldn’t stop your dream. If at first you don’t succeed, try another way. For every obstacle there is a solution. Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. The greatest mistake is giving up. Wishing will not bring success, but planning, persistence and burning desire will.

There is a gold mine within you from which you can extract all the necessary ingredients. Success is an attitude, get yours right. It is astonishing how short a time it takes for very wonderful things to happen.

Clearly define your goals, Write them down, make a plan for achieving them,set a deadline, visualize the results and go after them. Just don’t look back unless you want to go that way.

If You Believe You’ll Succeed

31 Rules Of Life

There are so many rules and guidelines to follow in life, but here are 31 of the most useful ones;

1. When you are in light, everything will follow you. But when you enter dark, even your own
shadow will not follow you: Success has many families and offsprings, failure is an orphan, That is life.

2. God made relatives. Thank God we can choose our friends: You should surround yourself with people that can help you achieve your dreams not never-do-wells.

3. Money glitters, beauty sparkles, and intelligence shines: No matter how hard you try to hide your achievements it will still be known.

4. Keep a very firm grasp on reality, so you can strangle it at any time.

5. Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re getting

6. People may not always believe what you say, but they will believe what you do: People will always judge you by your actions.

7. I’ve always wanted to be somebody, but I should have been more specific: Be specific about what you want, clearly define your goals.

8. You can’t have everything – where would you put it?

9. Laugh and the world ignore you. Crying doesn’t help either.

10. God is not moved or impressed with our worship until our hearts are moved and
impressed by him.

11. Life is like a mirror, if you frown at it, it frowns back; if you smile, it returns the greeting.

12. Never trust a person who isn’t having at least one crisis: A straight road leads nowhere

13. Goodness is the only investment that never fails.

14. The only thing lazy people do fast is get tired.

15. Never deprive someone of hope; it may be all they have.

16. Silence is the only thing that can’t be misquoted!

17. If we don’t control our money, it will control us.

18. Life Insurance: A contract that keeps you poor all your life so that you can die rich.

19. Some drink at the fountain of knowledge. Others just gargle.

20. Everyone has a photographic memory. Some don’t have film.

21. If you are living on the edge, make sure you’re wearing your seat belt.

22. A classic is something that everybody wants to have and nobody wants to read.

23. Minds, like parachutes, only function when they are open.

24. The shortest distance between two points is under construction.

25. Learn from other people’s mistakes, life isn’t long enough to make them all yourself.

26. On the road, never argue with a vehicle heavier than yours.

27. One thing you can give and still keep is your word.

28. Life is funny if you don’t think about it.

29. Life is like a grammar lesson. You find the past perfect and the present tense.

30. There are two kinds of lawyers, those who know the law and those who know the judge.

31. More doors are opened with ‘please’ than with keys.


Be Yourself

Being and staying yourself is perhaps the greatest favour you can do for yourself while you are still on earth. To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you someone else, but staying true to yourself means you’ll have to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.
Many live a life not meant for them, a life not suited to them, trying to be who they are not, in doing this they fail to fulfil their potential.

If you look around the world today, millions are faking their lives and its a major problem in the world right now: many try to live their lives like celebrities but they always forget that those celebrities are popular today not because they live someone else’s life but because they live their own lives which is why they are able to reach their full potential.

We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that in the end we become disguised to ourselves, If God wanted you otherwise he would have created you otherwise.

The great majority of us are required to live a life of constant duplicity, your health is bound to be affected if, day after day, you say the opposite of what you feel, if you grovel before what you dislike, and rejoice at what brings you nothing but misfortune.

It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are, almost every man wastes part of his life in attempts to display qualities which he does not possess, and to gain applause which he cannot keep but the happiest people are those that learn to be what they are, and learn to resign with a good grace all that they are not.

Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be, because sooner or later, if you are posing, you will forget the pose, and then where are you, every time you don’t follow your inner guidance, you feel a loss of energy, loss of power, a sense of spiritual deadness.

At bottom every man knows well enough that he is a unique being, only once on this earth; and by no extraordinary chance will such a marvellously picturesque piece of diversity in unity as he is, ever be put together a second time.

The strongest force in the universe is a human being living consistently with his identity, almost all absurdity of conduct arises from the imitation of those whom we cannot resemble.

Best be yourself, imperial, plain and true, like the sky opens after a rainy day we must open to ourselves, learn to love yourself for who you are and open so the world can see you shine.
Be what you are. This is the first step toward becoming better than you are because in the end what will make you stand out from the crowd is being yourself and not an adulterated version of someone else.

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.

He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away.

Always be a first-rated version of yourself, instead of a second-rated version of somebody else.

Life Is Like Football

The main ambition of every footballer is either to score a goal or defend a goal, so also in life everybody has an ambition, a goal that we all strive hard to achieve.

Only footballers who work hard become great winners and achievers of the game, in life if you don’t work twice as hard as you should then your goal won’t be achieved

A goal can never be scored in football by sitting around, you need to attack the ball and hit it when you see an opportunity, In life if you don’t make moves towards your goal you won’t be able to achieve, but when you take risk and opportunities then success is lurking.

Defenders are obstacles to players trying to score but only those who can overcome the obstacles get goals, Success in life comes only to those who have overcome obstacles.

In football you can’t score the chances you don’t take, if you refuse to make a move in life you can’t achieve anything.

Your missed shots are your failures, but when you learn from the shots you missed you’ll score the next time you try, Failure in life is a step close to achieving success, when you learn from failure you’ll achieve success the next time you try.

Football is easier analysed than played, so also it is easy to talk about what you want to achieve in life than it is to achieve it.

Perfect and consistent practising lead to football perfection so also in life the more you attempt your goals the close you get to achieving it.

In football, If a team wants to intimidate you physically and you let them, they’ve won, so also in life if you see your ambition as too big for you, you’ll fail.

The rules of football are very simple, basically it is this: if it moves, kick it. If it doesn’t move, kick it
until it does, in life it your goal seems easy attempt it with all your energy, if it seems hard attempt it till you achieve it

In football, If you are first you are first. If you are second, you are nothing, In Life those that succeed will be remembered not those that are so close to succeeding

In football, You have to learn to predict the next play before it happens, In life your ability to project the future will always give you an edge.

If you fail to win in football, you’ll lose many things, If at the end of trying in life, you don’t achieve your aim many things you invested will be lost

Football requires players to discipline be highly and to work hard. There is also a beautiful life
lesson in the scrutiny and evaluation process. This is like life, where if we hope to improve and grow, we have to take responsibility for that growth, and surround ourselves with people who can help.

Football provides a variety of challenges that will test and help to build players perseverance. These are all things that will challenge players emotionally, and might tempt him to quit but if they can persevere, they’ll achieve greatness at the end, the Ups and Downs of life might tempt us to give up but if we can strive to continue we’ll be a success at the end.

Football is like life, it requires perseverance, self- denial, hard work sacrifice, dedication and respect
for authority.

God Is the referee
The angels are the linesmen
Your family and friends are the fans
Earth is the football pitch

Remember to always keep your head up and shoot for your goals.

Keep Your Dreams Alive.

Keep your dreams alive, for if dream die life is a
broken winged bird that cant fly.

Whatever your mind can conceive and believe, it will achieve. Dream great dreams and make them
come true. Do it now!

Defeat may test you; it need not stop you. If at first you don’t succeed, try another way. For every
obstacle there is a solution. Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. The greatest mistake is giving up. Wishing will not bring success, but planning, persistence and burning desire will.

You are unique in your own ways, In all the history of the world there was never anyone else exactly like you, and in all the infinity to come there will never be another you.

Never accept self-limitations. What you believe yourself to be, you are.

To accomplish great things, you must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe. If
you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost – put foundations under them. Yes you can.

Believing is magic, you can always better your best.
You don’t know what you can do until you try.

You can’t get something if you don’t start something If you don’t reach out or stretch yourself, you’re never going to get the fruit. There is no failure except in no longer trying.

Lazy goals produce lazy results, clearly define your goals, write them down, make a plan for achieving them,set a deadline, visualize the results and go after them. Just don’t look back unless you want to go that way.

There is a gold mine within you from which you can extract all the necessary ingredients. Success is an
attitude. Get yours right. It is astonishing how short a time it takes for very wonderful things to happen.

Dream it, Follow it, Achieve it.

Life Is Good

Never rue a day in your life, Because everything that happens in a day is part of the necessary steps that needs to be taken to form the future, each day comes with its blessing and disappointments; both are necessary to make you understand what life is all about.

Never hate or blame the people in your life, they all are like actors in the movie of your life, each with a specific role to play, roles you can’t play by yourself, but must be played by others;
You cant break your heart by yourself Neither can you date yourself, those that break your heart and those that fall in love with you play the roles of teachers, they are in your life to teach you that life is not as bad as you feared neither is it also as good as you thought.

There are many other role that you cant play by yourself but by those around you which is the reason they are in your life in the first place.

Never regret what you did in the past, it was exactly what you wanted to do at the time you did it, but because it did not turn out in your favour does not mean you should live the rest of your days regretting and more importantly because it was your decision to do it then, if it wasn’t your decision you wont regret but challenge it. So instead of regretting it you should learn from it and make use of the lesson and move on.

Never be scared to take a step in your life because its what will shape your future, rather becareful because one wrong step could be the beginning of the end or the beginning of good things to come in your life.

Whatever happens in life, never give in to regret, rather you should refresh and move on because nobody will pass through life without life passing through such person.

The ups and downs are very important to our existence, it is what keeps us going.

Nobody promised us that life will be easy, life can’t be a bed of roses because it is the taste of failure that makes victory sweet.

No matter the situation you find yourself, just remember Life Is Good